because I love talking. and I love talking about myself. and just talking.
and even if I really like someone a lot I have a hard time sitting still and listening to them, like really listening. the kind of listening where I'm not waiting for a moment of silence to jump in with what I want to say next.
I think I'll know when I'm really in love because they will talk and I will just let them go on and on because I actually want to hear and think about what they are saying and not what I want to say.
When I value someone's thoughts that deeply I think that's when I'll know.